Do you have the urge to smash your Blackberry against the wall? Or better yet grind into your boss’s face? Did you quietly mute the phone while on a call with your client and shout obscenities? Was lunch actually the piece of toast that you didn’t have time to eat for breakfast? Then it’s REALLY time to treat yourself. Here are some tips for where to start.
Visit a Chocolate Wonderland
Take a trip to the real life Chocolate Factory. The real life incarnation has manifested itself in Union Square under the name of Max Brenner Chocolate by the Bald Man. This chocolate fantasia boasts everything from a traditional Peanut Butter Ice Chockie and Chocolate Fondue to more adventurous delights such as Chocolate Pizza. This is the ultimate destination to forget the 769 emails sitting in your inbox, the reports that you NEED to compile for your boss but that will never be read, and last night’s blind date who ended up drooling on you. Be forewarned though that the climate at this chocolate temple can be on the Alaskan side. But you know it’s good when the waitress tells you that the sub-zero temperatures are “required for the chocolate.” But then again, what better way and place to calm the fires of your stress and to take the heat away from your day!
Have a Massage Day
There are day spas galore in Manhattan that offer a multitude of special exotic packages. Unwind by enjoying a hot stone massage, sugar and honey scrub, combined with dead sea salt exfoliations. But if you’re more budget conscious, you can always select one service and most spas allow you to use their facilities with no time restrictions. This can often include, dry and wet saunas as well as the jacuzzi. All of the relaxation with less of the costs. To share your relaxation secrets, many spas also accept group reservations, so you can contact all your girlfriends to have a spa day together.
A Day of Wine Euphoria
Most people probably envision the vineyards and landscapes of West Coast wineries like Sonoma and Napa Valley when wine country is mentioned. You’re probably thinking right now, who has the money or time to fly to the West Coast? Many would be surprised that the East Coast can hold its own. Just check out the plethora of wineries in North Folk, Long Island. And I know this article is titled “Pampering and De-Stressing in NYC” but these vineyards are only an hour and a half to 2 hours away from Manhattan. It can take longer traveling from Brooklyn to Queens by subway! Most of these wineries are open all year round for wine tastings so take a leap and head out of Manhattan for a change. And if you venture out between the months of May and October, many of the local farms open up their doors for fruit picking- think apples, peaches, blackberries and more! What better way to spend time away from your boss, the rat infested subways, and the tourists in the city.
A Day of Wine Euphoria continued…
So I haven’t convinced you …and you don’t have a car… and you don’t want to rent one. But wine sampling sounds like exactly what the doctor prescribed. Then just stay in Manhattan and bar hop your way around. My favorite neighborhood is the Lower East side. This neighborhood has become a mecca for bar/lounge/wine bar lovers. All small and hip. If you’re in for more mainstream, trendy, hotel bars are recommended such as the ones in the W hotels, the Hudson Hotel, and the Tribecca Grand. There are also some wine bars, like the Metro Cafe and Wine Bar on 32 East 21 st St that offer wine flights, which are a sampling of 4 different wines most of which are for under $15.
Shopping Therapy
New York has long been known as a shopper’s paradise. What better way to forget your worries than shopping for a sexy party dress or a stylish, casual outfit for the weekend. Here a couple of tips on neighborhoods to go for the best goodies.
Who would go to the Financial District for shopping? Isn’t that the neighborhood where you’re supposed to make money, not spend it? Well that would be true except for the monolithic shopping shrine known as Century 21. This discount department store is famous for it’s wide selection of name brand goodies that are at monstrously discounted prices. When on sale, think $30+ for a Valentino cardigan or $120 for a Miu Miu dress or $110 for Costume National shoes. Run don’t walk!
If you’re more for this season’s couture and can afford couture prices, start from 5th Ave and 50th street in Manhattan’s high end fashion heaven. All you have to do is move up from here to 58th st then continue on to Madison Ave. moving upwards towards the 80’s. There’s Saks, Bergdorf, Barney’s, Fendi, Prada, Gucci, Ferragamo. Warning though - the prices are usually not so heavenly.
If you want this season’s fashion, but you want hipper, sartorial purchases that don’t require a trust fund then start from Soho and then head to Nolita. Soho has more well known, but hip and young fashion. Miu Miu, Vivienne Tam share the ‘hood with Club Monaco, Anthropology and H&M to name a few. Move over to Nolita for more local, hip, and independent designer duds as well as vintage favorites like Resurrection at 217 Mott St.